Thursday, December 31, 2009

Donkey of the Year 2009 is...

Tiger Woods of course!

He won by a landslide in our 'scientific' poll. Thanks to everyone who voted. Tiger would like to thank all his mistresses, for without them he wouldn't be worthy of such and honor.

See you in 2010 with fresh content. Have a safe and blessed New Year!

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Stewie is GAY

Big surprise. Stewart Gilligan Griffin from Family Guy is gay. Baby's father #12 aka Family Guy creator Seth MacFarlane talks about it in Playboy. You can read the entire sexy interview HERE

Donkey of the WEEK

This dumb ass quote deserves Donkey of the damn week. Guess who said this ish?
"This probably sounds so dumb, but there's so many times I'll forget to take my pill and I don't think it's that big of a deal. It's just so stupid."

This should be a no-brainer. Because its none other than recent celebrity knock-up Kourtney Kardashian. Much to her surprise, yes, you DO get pregnant when you don't take your pill. And now your baby has a douchebag for a father. Yes, she is back with loser of the year Scott. SMH

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

More to Love

More to Love, FOX's Plus-size version of 'The Bachelor', was horrible, horrible, horrible. First of damn all, how DARE they portray us (big girls) as desperate, get's-no-loving, losers. Where are the confident chicks????????? Second of damn all, where the hell were the Blacks? How you got a show about big girls and no Blacks? Last of damn all, why couldn't we get a fine, sexy, 6-pack having man? I mean no offense to dude, he cute, but what is FOX trying to say? Needless to say, I won't be watching this ish ever again. BET? Are you listening? Can you come out with a NON-GHETTO version? I repeat a NON-GHETTO version with some confident chicks and a sexy man? Thanks.

Monday, July 27, 2009

Kim and Reggie are Dunzo

One of my favorite jungle fever couples has split. Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush broke up, sighting scheduling conflicts and what not. Girl please, as fine as Reggie is I would make my schedule fit his, ya dig? Anywho, I have a feeling we won't be seeing the last of these two. But, here are my picks for who Kim should date next.

Brian Westbrook of the Philadelphia Eagles - chocolate, stocky football player like Reggie

Ray J - I know she been there already but she could keep him occupied from making anymore dumb ass shows

Justin Timberlake - because Jessica Biel just won't do

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

You Got A Lot Of Nerve

Who you calling a fag Weezy? Last time I checked Wendy needed to hit the "How U Doin?" button on you. Lil Wayne did a freestyle in which he called Michael Jackson a 'fag'. In the words of my friend Crystal, "For shame!!"


Those of you that know me know that I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE radio/TV host Wendy Williams (how u doin?). She just launched her new TV talk show and apparently its been proving too much to keep doing both. Charlamagne posted on his Twitter account that tomorrow Wendy will announce on her radio show at 4PM Eastern that she will be resigning from radio for now. I hope this isn't true, but Charlagmagne wouldn't lie and he would know. I am soooo devastated! Who is going to get me through my work days????? I'm going to go cry *sigh*.

from Cthagod:
"Wendy Williams (@wendyshow) is leaving radio. (For now) official resignation announcement 4PM Thursday on WBLS from Wendy herself."

Kelis Gives Birth

Kelis has given birth to Nas's son, Knight Jones. Congrats! Now can you two put this foolishness aside and act like civil co-parents? I mean really. Kelis you should have NO time now to be blogging about Nas's donkeydom.

Say It Ain't So

Please please please tell me my baby's father #29 aka Ben Roethlisberger did not pull a Kobe Bryant by luring some hoe up to his room to "fix the tv" only to tap that ass when she got up in the room. Damn, damn, damn James!!! Ugh, so some chick is filing a sexual assault lawsuit against Pittsburgh Steeler QB, Ben Roethlisberger, alleging he raped her (why couldn't it have been meeee...I won't complain). Whatever ho, you know u liked that ish. Maybe she likes Black guys, whatevs. Ok ok rape is nothing to joke about, but I just can't believe Ben would do such a thing. SMH. We shall see how this plays out. READ

Naked Cowboy for Mayor!

Yup, you read that right. New York City's own Naked Cowboy that stays perched in Times Square is running for mayor. Um...yea...good luck with that. FULL STORY

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Bill O'Reilly The Remix

OMG this is f-ing hilarious! The remix to when Bill O'Reilly lost his damn mind (as usual) and was cussing out folk on Inside Edition. SMH

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Eye Candy of the Day

In honor of the MLB All Star Game tonight, enjoy a montage of MLB Baseball Hotties...

David Wright, NY Mets

Chase Utley, Philadelphia Phillies

Johan Santana, NY Mets

Shane Victorino, Phillies

Oh Brit Brit, I Feel Your Pain

Britney Spears is fat again y'all! No, not my words but the alleged words of her entourage. According to Contact Music, Britney has gained 14 pounds in a month on her break from touring. Sham F*cking Wow. Its not Brit's fault, its the food! It calls your name. I understand Britney, I understaaaaaaaaaaaaand. I don't know what all the fan fare is for, chick will lose it all as soon as she starts pop and locking again on tour. READ ABOUT IT

Who Said This Ish?

I came across a rather smashing quote. Thought we should play a game of Who Said This Ish?
"It's wonderful. I grew up around gay people my entire life, basically, that's possibly why I'm quite camp, and some people think I'm gay when I meet them, which I think is awesome. It's always good to keep them guessing"

What? Way to quiet down those gay rumors. I think a million teenage girls just shat themselves.



Daniel Radcliffe aka Harry Potter of course

Jennifer Aniston and Gerard Butler

OH HELLLLLL NO! B*tch better back the hell up off my man. Gerry know he like the brown. I am not happy with these pictures of Jen "Ain't-Got-No-Man" Aniston and Gerry "I'm-so-fine" Butler canoodling on set of The Bounty. Jen just don't know I don't take kindly to unapproved hoes up on my men. I best not see you in dem skreets of NYC hooch! INF Daily has the pics. *sigh*

Jessica Shame on You

If this ish is true, Jessica Simpson is donkey of the month. reports the "alleged" real reason Tony dumped them boobs.

“They were hanging out and he picked up her phone and she got defensive about it,” the source revealed. “Tony found messages from John [Mayer] and went ballistic.”

Really? You ruined your relationship with Mr. Romo because of some John "whore" Mayer? Oh Jessica, you really are as blonde as you look. FULL STORY

Baby News: Joey McIntyre Adds Another

Congratulations to Joey McIntyre (NKOTB) and wifey Barrett. They will be adding baby #2 to their family along side 20 month old Griffin. NKOTB is currently on tour and have been for a minute. Barrett and Griffin have been tagging along with Joey. Sounds like Joey and Barrett was getting it in on the bus! LOL. She is due in December and it will be a boy! Congrats to the couple. has the FULL STORY

Monday, July 13, 2009

Racism Alive and Well

I can't even type I'm so mad at this. I will never understand what makes people so hate-filled and ignorant. I wanted to cry reading this article. Just disgusting. For those people who think just because a Black man was voted into the White House that racism is dead? You are SOOOOOOOO far off its not even funny. Here's just a taste of what, unfortunately, a whole lot of people think.
In regards to Malia:
"A typical street whore." "A bunch of ghetto thugs." "Ghetto street trash." "Wonder when she will get her first abortion."

Conservatives go Off on Obama Family-FULL STORY

Shot on the Toilet

I believe the title says it all. Damn shame. Can't even pee without being shot.

TAMPA, Fla. -Authorities said a bullet from a gun that was accidentally dropped injured a Tampa woman sitting in a bathroom stall. Police said the bullet hit 53-year-old Janifer Bliss in the lower left leg. She was taken to a hospital with minor injuries.
Bliss was sitting on the toilet in a hotel bathroom when a woman in the next stall accidentally let her handgun slip out of her waist holster. The weapon discharged when it hit the ground.
Police said the gun belonged to a 56-year-old woman who has a concealed weapons permit.
The case has been referred to the State Attorney's Office to determine if any charges will be filed.

Source: AP via

Jessica and Tony Split!

Another celebrity couple bites the dust. And the bastard couldn't even wait until after Jessica's 29th bday to get rid of her. SMH. Damn u Tony, Damn u!! That's right, he dumped her the day before her birthday.

"She is heartbroken," says the source. "She loves Tony. But it's been difficult lately. He's busy with his career and she's getting ready to shoot her show (The Price of Beauty). They decided to part ways."

Oh well Jess. Hopefully, you'll find the ONE someday. FULL STORY

Finally, Pagano's Gets Their Due!

I am so sick and tired of people saying Geno's, Pat's and Steve's have the best cheesesteaks in Philly. That ish is nasty. I like Jim's Steaks and all, but I been repping Pagano's hard since I was a little girl. Every best cheesesteak list I've ever seen, Pagano's was NEVER on it. Maybe because its in the hood and not in a "tourist-friendly" area. But, whatever. A good cheesesteak is a good mutha f-ing cheesesteak!!!

So, today, much to my delight, I came across the cover story of City Paper. They list the 10 best cheesesteaks you've never had. And FINALLY, there at number eight was PAGANO'S! Hooray! So now what I, and my whole family, have been saying for years finally gets its press. Pagano's is that real ish, period. Anything less is a fake! I dare you to try it and not fall in love.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Who's In Charge of Advertising?

Who thought this choice of words was a good idea? Damnit Dairy Queen. SMH

Eye Candy of the Day

This man needs NO introduction. DAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN...ladies and gents, Mr. Idris Elba

And since dudes (straight ones) read this blog too, here is a little something for y'all. Sanaa Lathan is gorgeous and I have a mini girl crush on her.


Donkeys of the Day

Um, for a second I thought I was going to have to title this post 'Damnit Black People' again, lol, but this is some Polish folks! Let me find out beat downs, knife fights and what not go on at their weddings too. I stumbled upon this hilarious case of donkeydom where a couple gets married, gets their fight on and divorces all in the same day. Ain't that some ish.

A Polish couple who had been living together in Germany got married and decided to get an annulment on the same day, after a huge fight broke out almost immediately post-nuptials. It escalated pretty quickly into that "I never want to see you again" phase, which must be pretty awkward right after tying the knot with somebody.

Then the groom began chasing his bride around with a knife and trying to cut her hair. (Judging by what we learned from the Claire Danes movie, we're pretty sure that's not a Polish wedding tradition.) The cops were called by wifey and they issued the man a restraining order, which he gladly accepted.


Ben Puts Jen on Blast

Remember back when Ben Affleck dated JLO? Well, now he's speaking out about how he really felt during the relationship.
He says, "I was no longer in control of my life. I thought I wanted certain things, but I didn't. I got lost. I felt suffocated, miserable and gross. I should never have gone down that route or got sucked in to all the publicity.
"I was typecast as myself. Too many people weren't getting past what they read about me. That was damaging. I can tell from experience it's bad for you, and bad for your career. So I took a break, went away for a while and let things calm down."

Well now. I just remember how JLo kept you decked out in velour suits. Read the full story at Contact Music

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Sad News Ladies

The finest man on Earth, yes I said Earth, Channing Tatum got married today in Malibu to longtime girlfriend Jenna Dewan. Yes, I'm just as sad and devastated as you are. As much as it pains me to say *sigh* congratulations Channing and Jenna, I hope you are happy together. (wahhhhhhhhhhhh)

And Green Lantern Goes To...

Ryan "Damn I'm Fine" Reynolds! Congrats! He beat out Bradley Cooper and Justin Timberlake for this role. Any of the pics would be great eye candy, but I think Ryan is a fine choice! The movie won't be out until Summer 2011, but in the meantime enjoy the sexiness that is Ryan "Why the f*ck did I marry Scarlet HO-hansson" Reynolds.

The Next Big Thing?

My friend, Crystal, wrote this fabulous review on an up-and-coming rap artist from Las Vegas named Reallionaire Jream. You can listen to his music HERE

There is a dispute among a local Memphis rapper, Skinny Pimp, and Craig Brewer, who is the director of the movie Hustle & Flow, as to who actually came up with the idea for that movie. Many rappers claimed that Ludacris’ character, Skinny Black, was based on their lives. I remember hearing Craig Brewer say something along the lines of he can throw a rock into a crowd and odds are that it will hit someone who claims to be a rapper or musician. In my own experience, ne’er have truer words been spoken. 5 out of every 10 people that I know have an “aspiring” music career, a number that I am sure will be amplified as more and more people find themselves out of work.

Because of the overabundance of rappers, singer, writers and producers (using each of those terms very loosely), we tend not to take musicians seriously until well after they have proved themselves. I am no exception to that notion. In fact, I believe my self to be one of the biggest skeptics when it comes to claims of unique musical ability. So when I hear an artist or track that I find to be a cut above the rest, I deem it my duty to speak up.

I have not been taken aback by pure talent since watching Ryan Leslie’s making of Gibberish, but recently, I have been captivated again. This time by a young hip-hop artist who goes by the name of Reallionaire Jream. I actually came into contact with this young man several years before I even decided to listen to his music (see my previous claims of skepticism for an explanation as to why). He was a young guy scribbling lyrics down in a beat up notebook, with dreams of being heard. Years after this encounter I came across this same young guy on one of those social networking sites, and was pleasantly surprised to find that he was still scribbling and telling his stories to whomever would listen. So I took the time to hear what he what he was all about. Needless to say, I was blown away, and am now a true fan of Reallionaire Jream.

When you think of a 20something year old, hip hop artist who hails from Las Vegas, you expect to hear all about his misrepresented life of crime, what he likes to spend his “benjamins” on, how he gets the barely legal girls to shake and dance for him, or better yet, the art of fellatio (at least that is what I had expected). But that is not what I got. In his songs, Reallionaire Jream, who prides himself on “being real”, is simply telling it like it is; giving you the opportunity to envision the world through his eyes. He talks about life, in general, personal triumphs and tragedies, his influences, his views on past relationships and young love, his family, and so on. He was easy to relate to, but more importantly, his music has sustenance, which is refreshing during the rise of bubble gum hip hop (nothing against the Lil’ Mamas and Soulja Boys of today, I just don’t care about your lip gloss or your swag).

Reallionaire Jream is one of those artists that I affectionately call a “kitchen magician”; meaning that his music is homemade, but the magic that he puts out is that of a professional who is already a veteran of the game. I am more than impressed with his style, and it is hard to describe, or compare. His music has the lyrical phenomena similar to that of Talib Kweli. His subject matter has the serious, heartfelt emotion similar to that of AZ. His rhymes have the entertaining hint of humor, similar to that of Redman. He possesses the mainstream potential of Eminem in his heyday. This young man is not only a gifted lyricist, but an unparalleled artist as well. I have to give props where they are due; and Reallionaire Jream is more than deserving. And now, I sit back and watch as this star begins to shine!

Y'all Made Allen Iverson Cry

How dare y'all! You should all be shamed! Bringing my baby to tears like that. Leave him alone! Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house mothafathers. Anywho, watch this touching video of AI letting it all hangout.


Friday, July 10, 2009

Sweet Dreams

Beyonce has released yet another single from her I AM...Sasha Fierce album. Sweet Dream is one of my fav joints on the album. Loving this video. More choreography for me to learn. YAY!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Eye Candy of the Day

If you are a Law & Order: SVU fan like myself, then you know about Detective Elliot Stabler aka Christopher Meloni. That's my DILF (Dad I'd Like to F***). He is so sexy. That's my Old Head Baby Daddy. Let's look at some of the sexiness that is Christopher.

Monday, July 6, 2009

Lil Wayne Dirty Diana Remix

WRONG! Try again Weezy. Not feeling this 'Dirty Diana' Remix. If you gonna be remixing MJ, you better come with it. What y'all think? Listen here.

MJ Has NOT Left The Building

Justin - is this real? lol

Monday, June 29, 2009

BET Awards: Videos

Videos from last night's show.

Jamie Foxx dancing to Beat It. LOL

MJ Tributes

BET Awards: Red Carpet

Who looked fabulous and who should try again:

Beyonce - fly!

Lala - wow she looks amazing

Kanye and Amber Hose - ugh

Lil Mama - WTF?
lil ma

Trey Songz - mmmmm

Keri Hilson - even though I don't like her, she looks great

Keke Palmer - LOVE HER!

Jazmine Sullivan - FAT! Fabulous And Thick

Assie - Who let her in?

Alicia Keys - Best she's ever looked

Jamie LOL

BET Awards 2009

So, last night was the much anticipated BET Awards. I expected it to be mostly a tribute to Michael Jackson. Um, yea. Yes, they talked about MJ, yes they paid tribute to MJ but not as well as I, and most of the Black community, had hoped. I was highly disappointed in the level of straight up DONKEYNESS poppin' off last night. Here's a little synopsis:

  • New Edition - are you serious? I mean the Jackson 5 steps were on point, but the singing. O Lord the singing was horrendous! Ralph get your voice together. Bobby sit down!
  • Don Cornelius - was it necessary for your speech to be like 30 minutes long?
  • Ciara - who the hell let you sing? Stay in your lane and get the dancing.
  • Eddie Levert - leave the liquor alone
  • Ving Raimes - word?
  • Monica - FAB
  • Jay-Z & Beyonce - HIGHLY disappointed in your actions BEHIND the scenes.
  • Lil Wayne, Soulja Boy, Jae Mills - GHETTOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
  • Jamie Foxx - HILARIOUS
  • BBD - Killed It!
That's pretty much the gist of it.
SMH...all I know is BET better do a REAL Michael tribute and it better be right!

BET Awards Racist Backlash

The lovely Liris Crosse (one of my fav models) tweeted about an article about the racist ignorant ass people voicing their displeasure with the fact that the BET awards were the top 10 trending topics on Twitter last night. Are you serious? WTF? Are Black people not allowed to talk or use Twitter? Get the f*ck outta here with that ish. Don't even get me started. Go back to the hole you crawled out of and suck on that. READ IT


Thursday, June 25, 2009

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Donkey of the Day


PHOENIXVILLE, Pa. -Police in suburban Philadelphia say a man fed up of children playing in his cul-de-sac blared a pornographic soundtrack to chase them off. Irate neighbors told police they could hear the sexually explicit audio a block and a half away.
Police say Michael Buck faces a felony obscenity charge and two misdemeanors for the May 31 stunt at his upscale Phoenixville home.

The 27-year-old Buck has a preliminary hearing scheduled for next month. He doesn't have a listed telephone number, and his lawyer declined to comment Wednesday.
Detective Tom Goggin says Buck had filed one previous complaint about the neighborhood children. He says the children clearly annoy Buck — but there's nothing criminal about playing outside.

source -

25 Most Dangerous 'Hoods in the US

If you live in these neighborhoods, get the ducking. Side note: Remind me not to go to Broad & Dauphin when I'm home visiting.

25 Most Dangerous Neighborhoods

* 25) Chicago, Ill. (Winchester, Ave./60th St.)
* 24) Chicago, Ill. (Wallace St./58th St.)
* 23) Detroit, Mich. (Mount Elliott St./Palmer Ave.)
* 22) Orlando, Fla. (East-West Expy/Orange Blossom Trl.)
* 21) Cleveland, Ohio (Cedar Ave./55th St.)
* 20) Baltimore, Md. (Orleans St./Front St.)
* 19) Chicago, Ill. (66th St./Yale Ave.)
* 18) New York, N.Y. (St. Nicholas Ave./125th St.)
* 17) Tampa, Fla. (Amelia Ave./Tampa St.)
* 16) Philadelphia, Pa. (Broad St./Dauphin St.)
* 15) Little Rock, Ark. (Roosevelt Rd./Bond St.)
* 14) St. Louis, Mo. (14th St./Dr. Martin Luther King Dr.)
* 13) Springfield, Ill. (Cook St./11th St.)
* 12) Dallas, Texas (2nd Ave./Hatcher St.)
* 11) Memphis, Tenn. (Bellevue Blvd./Lamar Ave.)
* 10) Richmond, Va. (Church Hill)
* 9) Dallas, Texas (Route 352/Scyene Rd.)
* 8) Kansas City, Mo. (Forest Ave./41st St.)
* 7) Memphis, Tenn. (Warford St./Mount Olive Rd.)
* 6) Kansas City, Mo. (Bales Ave./30th St.)
* 5) Baltimore, Md.(North Ave./Belair Rd.)
* 4) Jacksonville, Fla. (Beaver St./Broad St.)
* 3) Miami, Fla. (7th Ave./North River Dr.)
* 2) Chicago, Ill. (State St./Garfield Blvd.)
* 1) Cincinnati, Ohio (Central Pky./Liberty St.)

Source: Wallet Pop

It's A Wrap: Vanessa and Nick

Is it just me or is this not surprising in the slightest? They always looked miserable when photographed together. I'm glad Nick picked up what's left of his balls and got out of this relationship. Nick's single again ladies.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Eye Candy of the Week: Chris Pine

Chris Pine
You are so fine
I wouldn't even care if you caught that swine
I just wanna make you mine

WTF Is this Ish?

I'm gonna need Taylor Swift AND T-Pain to SIT IT DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jay-Z you ARE the Father

The rumors that Jay-Z has a son is nothing new, but now the British media is putting him on blast! Read it

RIP Eddie Mac

Mr. Publisher's Clearinghouse AKA Ed McMahon passed on today at the age of 86.

Perez Hilton gets Black-Eyed Pea-d

That's what your bitch-ass gets Perez. Simple as the code of the streets. You talk ish, you get confronted about that ish, then some ish goes down and someone gets they ass beat. Got it? Shout out to the Black Eyed Peas and their manager. Its about time someone sock him in the face. Don't dish it if you can't take it.

Jon and Kate are Dunzo

Does this mean we can stop reading and hearing about them? Does this mean I Jon gets his nut sack back? Does this mean Kate will no longer shed her bitchy light upon us? It was inevitable and neccessary. Peace out Jon - Kate + 8.
Read about it

Get That Kush!

Wow, I didn't know my breasts needed Kush.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Finding the RIGHT Mate

My mom sent me this lovely article and damn if it ain't right on point. Some of y'all (no names) need to take heed, take a DEEP LONG LOOK at this list. Happy dating!

*I'm accepting applications by the way*

Golden Rules For Finding Your Life Partner
by Dov Heller, M.A

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love.' I believe this is the #1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'. You need a lot more!!!

Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.

Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a longtime to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2) You can grow apart. Fifty percent (50%) of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life! The BOTTOM LINE -- MARRY SOMEONE WHO WANTS THE SAME THING!!!!!


Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust ( i.e., trust that I won't get 'punished' or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.)
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.

Is he/she a mensch? A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions: Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves?
A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right thing'. So ask about your Significant Other...What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not some one whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) People who are dedicated to seeking comfort.
Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.

How does he/she treat other people? The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self-absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.

Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve' them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself in trouble because you didn't do your homework.

Another Perspective....
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention. Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know, or appreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'. Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, pity, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship?

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Tamala Jones vs Kym Whitley

I'm so sick of hearing about these two old donkeys fighting at a restaurant with yung joc. No one at this dinner table is relevant even a little bit. But, this ish is still hilarious...

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Donkey of the Day

Whoever said it was good to run down a hill at full speed chasing after a wheel of cheese needs to be shot.

thanks justin

Who Said This Ish?

“I’ve been married, and for me to get married again, someone is going to have to be really exceptional. An extremely exceptional lady is going to have to come around . . . a Michelle Obama-type. She’s taken, but Barack, you better act right!”

None other than...

sit down Eddie, no one cares...go home to Mr. Gill